Throughout my career, I’ve had goals. Some big, some small, some achieved, and some, well, not. I was told early on that if you write down your goals, you will achieve them. There were times that I had pictures taped to my mirror in hopes of achieving a certain look and there were other times my computer was decorated with post it notes that were more task specific – like get a job earning $x. Back at the end of May, I had a milestone birthday (gulp). My husband asked me wh